Along
with the final 100 pages or so of Eleanor and Park, the class began a
discussion of the social construction of adolescence. According to the material
we read, 13 to 19-year-old people have crazy characteristics, such as raging
hormones, and it is out of their control and a part of life. The introduction
to “Act your Age!” discusses that creating the adolescence category is a way
to make those of that age group seem less important and not fully developed.
The craziness means that they are not people to be taken seriously. This last
point, especially, has been brought up several times during class in regards to
Eleanor. When Eleanor calls the police after hearing gun shots, for example,
the police officers’ response is to send Eleanor in the house first and not
really be concerned about her safety. Also, when Eleanor makes it to her aunt
and uncle’s house in Minneapolis, her uncle’s reaction to Eleanor’s story is “What
if she is lying?” Although there might be other reasons for either of these
examples, the theme seems to point to a 16-year-old not being important because
that is not the age of an adult.
As
a psychology student, I have thought about development a lot. In child psychology,
we discussed puberty versus adolescence, noting that puberty is biological. More than
that, though, is what happens naturally in a human’s development, such as
crying, walking, or talking. Human development is also dependent on the
environment – is there a parent presenting examples and feedback so the child
doesn’t constantly swear or is willing to share toys? Based on the child
psychology class material, most people do not mature as much as they can do. I used
to believe that being a certain age equaled certain characteristics, and this
is not true. Relating this to Eleanor and Park, it makes me wonder what Eleanor’s
mom’s life was like growing up and why she doesn’t seem to have any family
connections outside of a brother long-distance.
Overall,
I loved this book and I am glad that Eleanor was able to find more support
beyond Park and his parents before the end of the book. This seemed to happen
because of the relationship between Eleanor and Park and the fact that there
are people who can be trusted and supportive if you let them.
I don't think Eleanor was able to act her age. The way she was brought up and traded her force her to mature to maintain herself. Just like what we talked about in class, the difference between teenager now and teenage in the 1850's.
ReplyDeleteI agree that Eleanor did seem more mature, at least for the areas she had to learn to deal with because of her family.
DeleteI love reading your blog, you always have a very interesting take on things.I am also happy Eleanor ended up finding more support as well. Yes Eleanor and Park was a great book, I am glad we got to read it as a class.
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